Step mothers meet here to discuss step children and shared parenting and shared custody
4th May 2008
Bitter Ex Wife Pattern
Some examples to help you identify the bitter Ex!
http://www.thebritishsecondwivesclub.co.uk/articles/bitter_exwife_pattern.htm
Yikes! How many traits on this list does your man’s X possess? Unfortunately, if you’re like me, she’s attempted all of them at one point. (But I knew she was bitter on day one, I didn’t need a check list to see it.) And if you have one of these to contend with, girl, do I pity and empathize with you!
What even got me more was the statement that “even professionals think it takes 12 months to get over the divorce.”
Well, well, here we sit, 8 years in September, and the BB is no where near “getting over it.” She is acting the same as she did early on, except, the legal means that have been set in place prevent us from having to witness or her constant bitterness and attempted destruction of the relationship between my husband and his son.
My DH and I have now been married as long as they were. They’ve been divorced the majority of the kid’s life, yet she’s still totally hung up on [mostly made up] dramatic events from OVER EIGHT YEARS AGO. They were both 21 when she got knocked up. Don’t people change? Apparently SOME do, my husband certainly has matured. But the BB, not so much. I see her saying the same old tired lines and living in the past.
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